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Heart and Home: New Hampshire & New York City

by Tina Gleisner, in Buying a House

Rockefeller Center, New York City

Heart and home – are they always in the same place? Maybe not. When we understand the difference, we can enjoy our homes more while accepting that we need to nourish other parts of who we are. Here's how I reconnect with the city where I was born because everyone wants to go photos of fun doors.

Born in New York City, I think a part of me has remained there forever. When I was younger, I dreamed of living in NYC for a few years. So far that hasn't happened but who knows, we keep moving so you never know. Don't get me wrong. I've lived in so many places even I'm amazed – New York, California (twice), Connecticut, New Hampshire, summers in Nantucket and  lots of visits to Florida where my granddaughter lives. In my former life working for IBM, I lived in Tokyo and traveled extensively. I worked in Japan, Australia, Singapore, Hong Kong plus short trips to China. Vacation trips included Bali, Vietnam and New Zealand.

Today my home is in New Hampshire and my heart still yearns for that New York experience. So here are a few of the ways I've found to spend more time in NYC to explore heart and home, and what makes me happy.

heart and home involves more than your house - it includes the people & activities you enjoy in the city where you live

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Heart and Home: What I Love About New York City

In many ways the photos tell the story of what I love about NYC. My lifestyle involves working hard and to balance that, playing hard. However I don't like having to spend a lot of time planning my play. Rather I like having lots of options at my fingertips when I'm ready for some downtime. In New York City, all you have to do is walk out the door and down the street (taking photos of fun doors), with many choices within a few blocks away. You can decide to see a Broadway show and a half hour later (we walked) you're at the box office and often, you can get great seats at the last minute.

heart and home in New York City - Bryant Park has everything from winter ice skating to cafes & shops to find great holiday gifts

Bryant Park – green space in summer, ice skating in winter!

As I sit here trying to put into words what I'm feeling, I'm asking myself why I didn't move there when I graduated from college. That was a long time ago. I wasn't as fiercely independent back then and followed tradition, moving to an IBM job in Poughkeesie, New York. With one of the first degrees in computer science, I could have moved to Boston (working for Digital Equipment) or Seattle (working for Boeing to start, and Microsoft?). Clearly I didn't fully understand how I love city life and yes, I was a bit scared about moving to a place I'd never been (Seattle).

But let's not look back as we know the past will remain what it is. The only thing we can change is the direction we take moving forward … so let's go!

heart and home works best when you're able to mesh what you love, with what's practical as I've done by living someplace for a job & traveling to enjoy what I love

My boys & granddaughter love their LEGOs (check them out on Amazon).

Heart and Home is Like a Tug of War

Over the years, I've taken my boys to visit the Empire State Building, the Statue of Liberty, Times Square, Rockefeller Center (skating and the tallest Christmas trees), FAO Schwartz (mind boggling toy store), amazing train displays and now even the Apple Stores. One tradition I started was taking my au pairs down to New York City each December, to enjoy the city all decked out for the holidays. We started at Macy's where they loved trying on designer dresses. Then we'd walk north for hours, taking photos (before they were digital), visiting shops, eating until we reached my grandmother for a brief visit.

On one of my husband's business trips, we dropped him at work and the kids played on the escalators at Penn Station. Wherever you are, with children you have to find a playground and train stations are a lot of fun. The next morning Ryan who was 2 years old at the time, rode more escalators at the World Trade Financial center from 6 to 9am while my husband slept. Then we went to FAO Schwart to find a birthday present for a birthday party later that day.

The birthday present was a box of LEGO blocks. They're my 6 year old granddaughters favorite toy, and just realized I bought more for my secret Santa family this year, LOL!

Heart and Home: Finding a Home in New York

Still visiting NYC for Christmas, trying out different locations like this lovely apartment we got by swapping our home.
Once your children are grown, you have more time to think about heart and home, about what you want to do and where you want to live. My husband and I have talked about what it would be like to rent an apartment in New York for a year? If you're serious, then you've got to keep talking (we did) and start planning and here's what happened …

We picked a date for moving to New York and this made it real so we had to start figuring out what it would take to make it happen.

Finding a home in New York is more complicated than an HGTV show might suggest. We only know the city as occasional visitors. Other than knowing we want to live in Manhattan, we don't know neighborhoods. We decided the best way to discover what we like was to rent apartments and try living in different parts of the city, for a week and even a few weeks, to make sure we understand the pros and cons of city living.

Moving Means Letting Go of Collectibles

Preparing our home for rental – is also challenging as we all collect far too much stuff. We plan to rent our condo furnished (we didn't) so it's a matter of sorting, packing up and more important, giving away what we don't need and likely, will never use.

My home office will be easier as I travel lots and learned my lesson when moving my handyman office back home. We collect enough to fill the space we have, so less space is better! The number of different marketing pieces I had was crazy so I learned to keep it simple (obvious right, but not so easy for someone who enjoys being creative).

My real challenge is letting go of all my quilting fabrics which I've been collecting since the '70s. After making calls to a few of my art minded friends, I discovered a wonderful way to do this in a nearby town.  Crafters Quarters in Amesbury, MA does lots of work with non-profits so my fabrics will be shared with them, and the many groups that use their studio will use the fabrics for all sorts of projects.

How have you found balance between your heart and home?
Where is your heart? and home?

heart and home? my heart is clearly in New York City where I was born because you can't take the city out of this girl!

heat and home starts & returns to New York City every Christmas

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Tags: city living, home and heart, new york city

About Tina Gleisner

Tina helps women homeowners create homes they love, homes that support how we live today. Leveraging her experience owning 14 houses and running a handyman business, Tina offers a free Savvy Homeowner Report.

Comments

  1. Bobbi says

    December 8, 2017 at 6:12 pm

    Going to New York is one of those trips that is almost different every single time. There is so much to see and do!

    Reply
  2. TColeman says

    December 8, 2017 at 6:12 pm

    New York is one of those places that I have always loved. This time of year is also very festive there!

    Reply
    • Tina Gleisner says

      December 10, 2017 at 2:21 pm

      Visiting New York at Christmas is one of my favorite holiday activities and sadly, I won’t be getting there this year.

      Reply
  3. Corinne & Kirsty says

    December 8, 2017 at 4:26 am

    I have been to New York many years ago and I loved it! I had not seen much which is why I really want to go back! the city is during christmas sounds amazing!

    Reply
  4. soonjoo says

    December 7, 2017 at 11:41 am

    Beautiful! I love your photos! New York is a place that I have always wanted to visit. I’ve been there for a business trip but didn’t get to enjoy the city. I also love to collect scraps of fabrics for quilting but I’m sorry to hear that you had to let go of collection of fabrics.

    Reply
    • Tina Gleisner says

      December 7, 2017 at 2:20 pm

      Don’t worry Soon Joo, I still have plenty of fabric … just trying to get my collection down to a reasonable size.

      Reply
  5. Jhoan says

    December 7, 2017 at 8:22 am

    Going to New York is every traveler’s dream. Great post! Makes me want to go there soon.

    Reply
    • Tina Gleisner says

      December 7, 2017 at 2:23 pm

      So when are you going? as nothing happens until you give it a due date & put that on the calendar

      Reply
  6. Jeanette says

    December 7, 2017 at 7:27 am

    I have not been to New York City in years, but I have always loved exploring there! There is so much that is just New York original that I could never cover everything in that city! Sound like you have found your home city even if you don’t live there!

    Reply

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